Yelling Mother's Negative Effects on Children

Jakarta , the negative effects of hitting children is already known by most mothers across the globe . Not only cause physical injury , hitting the child also can trigger aggressive behavior that can lead to crime when he grows up later .
Well, one other thing to watch out for by the mother was about to shout at children . George Holden , a professor of psychology at Southern Methodist University in Dallas , United States , saying that scream once in a while it is sometimes necessary , but if done too often , it will trigger mental disorders in children .
" Cries of parents, especially mothers , will increase the anxiety and fear of children . However it will not help the child to learn how he should behave , " Holden said as quoted from Today , Friday ( 07/03/2014 ) .
Another thing to worry about when the mother screaming is the possibility of harsh words and inappropriate ejected from the mouth of the mother to her baby . These words not only hurt the feelings of the child , but also can affect the level of confidence in himself .
Calling any child with a negative epithet should not be done . Although most of the goals of parents do that to quip , Holden says it can hurt the self-esteem of children, especially adolescents .
" The words ' basic slacker ' or ' idiot ' may sound trivial , but the child will really feel that they themselves are lazy and stupid indeed . Thing that will hamper their psychological development , " said Holden who is an expert in the field of relationship children and the elderly .
The study published by the Journal of Child Development says that 45 percent of mothers in the United States using harsh words , shouting and using negative call on their children by the age of 11-15 years . However, only a small proportion do so in children aged under 11 years .
Holden said habits using harsh words , shouting and using negative calls in children is commonly found in mothers with teenage children . Because the children in the juvenile phase have a tendency to be more free and do not listen to the words of the parents .
" Even so , hitting or yelling is not the way to get kids to listen to you . Invite he spoke calmly , accompanied by chocolate cake or ice cream so it feels more patient and calm . Only then express what you want to say , " said Holden .